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I know what it’s like to have the life you planned disappear—and to realize you can’t wait for everything to be okay before you start living again. My work is rooted in grief, but my message has become much bigger than grief: we may not get to choose everything that happens to us, but we can choose how we live through it. I talk honestly about loss, identity, motherhood, purpose, reinvention, joy, and giving ourselves permission to stop “shoulding” our way through life. Because sometimes the life we wanted isn’t the life we get. That doesn’t mean we stop living. It means we get to decide what we need now—and build a life big enough to hold all of it.